Monday, May 4, 2015
My Fifth Meeting With Angela
I have always thought that the best way to get
to know someone better is to learn about their childhood. People are formed by
important role models in their lives such as their parents and siblings and the
experiences they have while growing up. I wanted to especially know what Angela’s
childhood was like growing up in a country different from the United States.
She said she loved growing up in Colombia because everyone is happy there and
always has a smile on their face. The community is strong and everyone looks
out for one another. She said growing up in such a positive environment made
her childhood great and she has many wonderful memories from growing up in
Colombia. She said her favorite specific memory is Sundays spent with her
family. Every Sunday her whole extended family comes over for lunch that her
dad cooks. We had talked about how close Angela was with her family before and
how much she loves her dad’s cooking. This was something we had in common because
my mom is a great cook and my family had dinner together every night as well as
Sunday lunch when I lived a home. Angela said though she misses Colombia she
loves it here in the United States. She does want her children to grow up in
Colombia though because she loved her childhood and wants the same for her own
children. She kept restating how happy the people in Colombia where and she thinks
that is a great environment for children to grow up in. This was something we
had in common as well because I loved growing up in Omaha and want to raise my
family there. I think when you had such a good childhood and memories from
growing up somewhere, you want your own children to experience the same thing.
Angela and I have found many similarities between the two of us but I think the
most important one is our love for our families. We both come from close
extended and immediate families that we have created great memories with. It is
fun for us to share these stories of growing up and about our families with one
another and learn about the experiences that have formed each of us.
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Your partner's comments about the happiness and positive environment of Colombia are interesting and seem to influence her desire to return and raise her own family. I'm interested in the demographics of the community she was raised in because a community made up entirely of happy and smiling people sounds wonderful and something that would be considered rare in America.
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